Karmic Relationships

 

I strongly believe in karmic relationships

In past few years my approach towards life has changed tremendously, started moving on a spiritual path. Got to know path of my life that is healing through non medical path. Learned Reiki & Magnified Healing. I am trying to spread healing whenever possible with these learning modes.

During the journey of last few years crossed many people with whom I feel connected in karmic way and call these relationships as Karmic Relationships. with time and help of spiritual reading was able to handle many of them but somehow deep down my heart I know it will go on till my lessons are learned with whoever my karmic balance is required be it from any past life of mine or current life. In case you also going through such relationships below is some helping points.

How to handle karmic relations?

Here are few points that may be of use in handling karmic relationships:

1. Stop judging others: understand that every person is born with his or her destiny. I do not say that you should not help a person when he is about to commit a mistake, however refrain from forcing your decisions. If possible suggest what you feel once or twice with the rationale behind your thought and then leave it up to him or her. It would be even better if you try to understand the other person’s point of view on a subject that might raise conflict between you two.
2. Love unconditionally: Try not to attach strings to your love, love them irrespective of their shortcomings. This way you will reduce the intensity of negative feelings that might be coming to you giving fuel for prolongation of karmic relation. The wise advise not to allow selfishness to appear like love, understand that if you love someone and expect something in return then maybe you are allowing love to get diluted with selfishness.
3. Understand no one is helpless: Writer and doctor, Dr Atul Gawande mentions an important study in his book Complications, according to the study, The number of untoward incidents were less in ICU patients with similar complications for whom prayers were performed versus ICU patients for whom prayers were not performed. My only point is if prayers can help ICU patients then all those people with whom you have past karmic relations can also be helped through prayers. Use this tool liberally to avoid any possible conflict, and you will know the magic of prayers.
4. Do not do tit for tat: I am not asking you to put down your defenses, but if you continue inflicting pain to your karmic partners, then the pattern will repeat life after life, until you become mature enough. If by no means you are able to handle a person, the best way is to separate yourself from the person without keeping any negative feelings in your mind. Once you resolve not to give energy to negativity then sooner or later the other half will to give up negativity. Someone needs to stop this cycle, so let it be you.

How to turn a negative karmic relation into a positive one?

I think this part is most important part of this post. You might have witnessed a wide variation in distribution of harmonious relations. In simple words relationships also follow normal distribution curve, means, a minority enjoys all harmonious relations, then there are majority of us who have a mix of harmonious and strained relationships, and again there is another minority whose life is filled with inharmonious relations.

To reach a level where we have less inharmonious relations we need to resolve our karma with others and ensure we do not create new negativity in our relations.

Here again the tools are forgiveness, unconditional love and selflessness, as you practice these tools you will form loving relations with people around you, and convert negative karmic relations to positive ones for this life and lives to come.

Shruti Mehendale 24^th Jan 2013

sharing something from the net: Balance Partners and Messengers

Balance Partners and Messengers

Balance Partners
Reality is about the return to balance. Balance Partners are the people you meet along the way who help you create balance in your life. They are catalysts who allow you to activate your DNA codes. In a time of the evolution of consciousness, balance partners would be on the same frequency saying and doing things that bring the awakening feeling.
As the grid programs of our reality move towards balance and closure, many people will evaluate all aspects of their lives - physical, emotional, and spiritual. New connections will be forged to that end.

 
As you move through your spiritual journey balance partners will come into your life at the appointed time and place, as you attract them into your life.

 
You generally attract each other by synchronicity, meaning that there is something that will be shared by both people, after which they can remain close friends or stay for a while and move on as would a teacher. The door is generally open to meet again and share in the future. They remain in our lives for a period of time after learning lessons then can freely move on without a feeling of separation and loss.

 
You 'attract' each other as you are on the same frequency and have things to share. The synchronicity that develop between you stagger the mind and hence raise the frequencies of both people. The recognition should be there by both partners is generally fast and fun - the connection forming quickly.

 
A balance partner can live near you or far away. You may never physically meet. You can talk on the phone or email with each other. Your conversations may increase from infrequent to several times in a day as you are both growing in ways that you cannot with anyone else. Events become exciting.

 
Balance Partners can be of any age, sex, religion, from any culture and background, come from different walks of life, the point being they have entered your life to share information and experiences with you that enhance your journey and give you the feeling of moving closer to the spiritual mission that seems to embrace your soul and tug at your consciousness.

 
Though most of us have experienced balanced partners in love, work, family, and with friends, spiritual balance partners take on a new hue as they are people you generally would not have expected to connect with until you began your spiritual journey. Friends up until this point are people who fit into your lifestyle, but balance partners are there to guided your genetic cellular memory, on your journey into awareness. Once you connect, the excitement and shared communication seems unmatched by anyone else around you.

 
Spiritually you enhance each others growth. It is as sometimes as if one of you has half of the information you both seek and the other the balancing half. You can share dreams, synchronicity, and more.
The need for communication and the high brought by the connection, is almost like falling in love, which sometimes happens with balance partners, that can end well, or destroy the purpose of the union. Balance Partners do not necessarily enter your life for romance, so please do not get caught up the romantic fantasy, which is rarely the case. Balance is the name of the game. Romance often complicates matters and the reasons for the friendship, which can become lost in the emotional games of both partners.

 
You can have more than one balance partner at a time as no one has all of your answers. Everyone is one their unique journey and along the way we encounter each other, if only to share information.
You can meet more than one Balance Partner, and generally do.
Balance Partners can be another aspect of your soul experiencing in the physical at the same time but in another body.

 
They can help you work on your issues as they are there to guide and enhance your experience in a positive way. But if your balance partner is emotionally unstable - you may not be able to balance them - and may have to move on as trying to balance that person creates imbalance for you in areas that were once balanced. Balance partners are there for growth and fun not create greater imbalance in your life.

 
The remote journeys and meditations you share can be the most memorable travels of your lifetime - if only in consciousness.
Balance Partners are often vehicles that lead one or both partners to other people to enhance their growth. This can create a 'spider-web effect' as we are all linked. Don't allow ego or petty jealousies to stand in your way.

 
Please remember that the function of the Balance Partner is to create balance and understanding for both of you. Make it fun and uncomplicated or it will end and you will miss whatever opportunity for growth your souls have created.

Messengers and Messages

In the twenty-first century, the messages brought by our souls, come quickly - mainly in dreams and synchronicity that make us aware that we are more than physical beings as we try to figure out the matrix of life that we experience very day.

 
Messengers can come from anywhere, any realm of experience, generally experienced for a 'moment', messages received, then the messenger moves on.

 
They be someone you meet, a signpost along the road, something your souls guides you to pay attention to, such as something written on a billboard, the license plate of the car in front of you, something you see in a film, on TV, read in a book, words in a song, a famous saying or quotation, something overheard in conversation by two other people, in a dream sequence or meditation, just about anything, anywhere.

 
Perhaps you have seen or heard a particular message in the past, but now that your frequency of awareness id rapidly evolving, the information speaks to you with a different connotation. Messages cannot be received until the listener is paying attention and is on the right frequency.

 
It is most important to recognize these messengers and messages when they appear. If you miss the message, or the messenger, your soul will most likely replay the message in another way until you 'get it', so please be sure to check your 'text messages' and those that come form other sources.

Shared by Shruti Mehendale 24th Jan 2013 

Bonding of our souls...

I don't know how many Life's...
I have passed by...
My love for you is still alive...
My love for you is free...
Of any bondage ...
It need no name or tag to survive ..
It only craves for...
An eternal bonding of our souls...

Shruti Mehendale 11th August 2011

Collection of some Haikus ....

Soul wants freedom...

From the past...

incompleteness still linger...

yet another lifetime to pass ....

*****

Thought of you ...

 Is like a heart beat ...

Will only stop when,

I breath my last breath ....

***** 

Waiting yet another lifetime ...

 Its not that painful...

The indifference is killing ... 

*****

Life cycle ....

 You meet unknown people .....

 They become your lifeline..... 

*****

Deeply burned by relationships....

You don't hear my cry....

Still craving for the soul-connectivity ...

*****

Your thought....

Ttriggers loving memories....

Of time spent together.... 

*****

Shruti Mehendale 15th July 2011

 

I Declare World Peace.....

I Declare World Peace is the world’s largest ever art / science project / experiment. We describe it in the next few paragraphs. It is not a group. There is nothing to join. There is no cost. There are no members, and it requires no registration. While I Declare World Peace supports and embraces the activities of every other well-intentioned peace promoting endeavor, our experiment is based on the principle of “do less and accomplish more.” So, I Declare World Peace engages in no activities of any kind, except for encouraging everyone to periodically think the affirmation “I Declare World Peace” and from time to time write it on the wall of your favorite social media.

World peace can be achieved in our lifetime. In the meantime, and to help the process (since peace is up to us), please post “I Declare World Peace” on the walls of your social media sites. Thank you.  More…….

But I am always thinking of you...

Wherever I go and whatever I do.....
I don't know why...
But I am always thinking of you...


Since I met you there's never a day....
When I don't think of you...
I sometime wonder if you know me..
Or if you look in my eyes...
Would you see what you mean to me...


Wherever I go and whatever I do...
I don't know why...
But I am always thinking of you....


I will never forget the day...
When I told myself....
That I am in love with you...
I am thankful to destiny n you...
That you came into my life...


Wherever I go whatever I do...
I don't know why ....
But I am always thinking of you...


I know the limitations with our life ...
But what matters the most is that ...
With our love we trust n understand each other.....
Our life's path are way too apart....
But our hearts are entangled with each other...


Wherever I go whatever I do....
I don't know why....
But I am always thinking of you...


Thank you for being there ...
I know you are quite different than me...
I am very expressive n you are too reserve...
I do understand your silence but...
When I am Expressive I do admire your patience with me ....


Wherever I go whatever I do.....
I don't know why......
But I am always thinking of you....


No matter where you go or what you do you are very special to me...

Shruti Mehendale 9th Aug 2010

Sharing an article from Osho Times Online...

Sharing an article from Osho Times Online... MAN’S INHUMANITY

		Why do people treat each other like they do? Is it all conditioning, or is there something in man that makes him willing to go astray?
		It is both. First, there is something in man that leads him astray. And secondly, there are people whose interest it is to lead human beings astray. Both together create a false, fake human being. His heart longs for love, but his conditioned mind prevents him from love. This is the problem. The child is born with a heart that longs for love, but he is also born with a brain that can be conditioned. Society has to condition it against the heart, because the heart will be always rebellious against the society, it will always follow its own way. It cannot be made into a soldier. It can become a poet, it can become a singer, it can become a dancer, but it cannot become a soldier. It can suffer for its individuality, it can die for its individuality and freedom, but it cannot be enslaved. That is the state of the heart. But the mind.... The child comes with an empty brain, just a mechanism, which you can arrange the way you want. It will learn the language you teach, it will learn the religion you teach, it will learn the morality you teach. It is simply a computer; you just feed it with information. And every society takes care to make the mind stronger and stronger so that if there is any conflict between heart and mind, the mind is going to win. But every victory of the mind over the heart is a misery. It is a victory over your nature, over your being — over you — by others. And they have cultivated your mind to serve their purposes. So the mind is empty, it is brain; you can put anything in it. And with twenty-five years of education you can make it so strong that you forget your heart; you will always remain miserable. The misery is that your heart can only give you joy, can only give you happiness, can only make you dance. The mind can do arithmetic, but it cannot sing a song. Those are just not the capacities of the mind. So you are torn apart between your nature, which is your heart, and the society that is in your head. And certainly you are born — everybody is born — with these two centers. That is the difficulty. And one center is empty. In a better society it will be used in accordance with the heart, to serve the heart. Then it will be a great life, full of rejoicings. But up to now we have lived in an ugly society, with rotten ideas. They have used the mind. And that vulnerability is there — mind can be used. Now communists are using it in one way; fascists used it in Germany in one way; all the other religions are using it in different ways. But that vulnerability is with every individual: that you have a mind which you bring empty. In fact it is a blessing of existence — but misused, exploited. It is given to you empty so that you can make it perfectly subservient to your heart, to your longings, to your potential. Nothing is wrong in it. But the vested interests all over the world have found it a beautiful opportunity for them — to use the mind against the heart. So you remain miserable and they can exploit you in whatever ways they want. That’s why the whole world is miserable. Everybody wants to be loved, everybody wants to love; but the mind is such a barrier that it neither allows you to love, nor does it allow you to be loved. In both cases the mind comes in the way and starts distorting everything. And even if by chance you meet a person you feel love for and the person feels love for you, your minds are not going to settle. They have been trained by different systems, different religions, different societies. It is everybody’s birthright to be happy, but unfortunately the society, the people with whom we have been living, who have brought us into the world, have not thought anything about it. They have just been reproducing human beings like animals — even worse because at least animals are not conditioned. This conditioning process should be completely changed. The mind should be trained to be a servant of the heart. Logic should serve love. And then life can become a festival of lights.
		Beyond Psychology
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