unconditional love.....

unconditional love.....

When in love you only think of the person you are in love as often as you can. And you look for ways to be in touch with the person......I would say fair enough because this is what the heart wants. And you would give your love to that person no matter what and the funniest part is when you feel deeply for someone you do not look for any thing in return believe it or not this is true and this kind of love is more spiritual.

But in the world of practical people it is difficult to make them understand this feeling unless they are them self  in love.I would not say u stop living your life. Daily routine will go on but love is the spice in the life this makes life beautiful to live in......

Sometimes I feel that why people you love soo much, are so scared of your love you have for them. They kind of resist the love they get.I wonder why, than a thought crossed my mind is it cos they were hurt by someone in love, cos every one in this world longs for love this is the birth right of every human being bee it young or old , man or women,even a new born. just breathing air does not make a person alive if its heart is not getting love it is as good as dead.

 But it is even more difficult and sad when people close there heart and do not wanna open it to the feeling of love..

Creating Loving Relationships

I would like to share some portion of book "Messages from Masters" by Dr. Brian Weiss.......

Quote......

There are different levels of learning, and we must learn some of them in flesh. We must feel the pain. When you're a spirit you feel no pain. It is a period of renewal. Your soul is being renewed. When you're in physical state in the flesh, you can feel pain; you can hurt. In spiritual form you do not feel. There is only happiness, a sense of well-being. But it's a renewal period for ....us. The interaction between people in the spiritual form is different. When you are in physical state.....you can experience relationships.

After our birth in the physical state, our main source of learning is through relationships. Through the joy and pain of interaction with other people, we progress on our spiritual paths in order to learn about love from all sides. Relationships are living laboratory, a field test to determine how we are doing, whether our lessons have been learned, to discover how close we are to our pre-determined life plan. In relationships our emotions are evoked, and we react. Have we learned to turn the other cheek, or do we retaliate with violence? Do we reach out to others with understanding, love, and compassion,or do we react with fear, selfishness, or rejection? Without relationships we would not know; we would not test our progress. They are wonderful but difficult opportunities to learn.

We are here in physical state in order to learn and grow. We learn traits and qualities such as love, non-violence, compassion, charity, faith, hope, forgiveness, understanding, and awareness. We must unlearn negative traits and qualities, including fear, anger, hatred, violence, greed, pride, lust, selfishness, and prejudice.

Unquote......

I would say look deeply at all your relationships be it with anyone and keep learning your lessons n show understanding, love, and compassion towards people in your life.......

LOVE U ALL who have touched my life some way or the other as you all were a medium of my learning lessons. Still trying my best to control negative trait specially anger......

Shruti Mehendale
14th Dec 2009

One more year of my life gone by....

One more year of my life gone by....

What an eventful year...

Learned so many things in life....

Some learning was in a hard way ...

Some with the mood of learning...

And some learning yet to be grasped....

And still want of learning is on...

Why I don't know....

One more year of my life gone by....

Saw people going from my life....

Who I will not see again rest of my life....

Also many people come in my life.....

Who are friends for life now....

And took their own place ...

Some in a very special way ....

Why I don't know....

One more year of my life gone by....

Regretting not seeing close ones ...

as often as I wanted to....

lost time will never come back...

I don't know if i wanna celebrate ...

Cos I am still numb from the mix feeling...

Of sadness and joy...

Why I don't know....

One more year of my life gone by....

Still today being somewhat special ...

I let myself feel little happy....

I know some of them do remember...

But will they take out time....

And give me few moments of their life....

Since morning waiting ..

Why I don't know...

One more year of my life gone by....

Today I am expecting a lot....

From so many people...

Wanna see where do I stand....

Maybe I am not wrong...

Hope is what I am hanging on.....

But hope is what keep me going...

Why I don't know....

One more year of my life gone by....

Shruti Mehendale 4th December 2009

Daddy I miss U sooo much.....

Daddy I miss U sooo much.....

Even if I don't say this to anyone ...

This is one thing....

which is life long gonna be with me...

This day exactly 20 years back...

You left us all....

I still have the vivid memory.....

Of the last days of your life....

The memories are engraved on my soul.

So sharp is it that they pears through...

And resurface on the memory lane...

Anytime anywhere....

Daddy I miss U sooo much.....

Even if I don't say this to anyone ....

The man who was a pillar to us all....

throughout our life was reduced to a condition ....

where he was forced to be dependent on others...

Even for his basic needs...

This dependence was something...

which was very difficult for you daddy..

I could read this in your eyes Being helpless....

O God!!! If possible....

please don't ever show this to anyone...

Daddy I miss U sooo much.....

Even if I don't say this to anyone ...

When we were young n small...

i remember ....

You always had an iron hand with fur gloves on...

we understood the unspoken rules...

as well as the freedom we were given...

when we were growing....

you were always there for us and others...

 when we needed your support....

Daddy I miss U sooo much.....

Even if I don't say this to anyone...

However sad the end was of your life...

Daddy I have loads of good memories too...

And they are much more in quantam...

You were a self made man....

we all saw the journey of your life........

which made you an ideal of my life...

Till date no one has come near to that...

I think for every girl her daddy is ideal.....

But I believe you were ideal for many..

Daddy I miss U sooo much.....

Even if I don't say this to anyone ...

This is one thing....

which is life long gonna be with me...

Shruti Mehendale  24th November 2009

I will keep my faith in love.....

God takes your test every now n then.....

He specially tests you when you are the most venerable....

I am too being tested by God....

But I am also strong willed he also know that....

I will keep my faith in love.....

My love will pass through all weather...

Be it spring with flowers of love in the air....

Or be it autumn with love in a form of leaf falling down...

Or be it winter with love having cold shoulder like freezing in the snow....

If love has fallen like an autumn leaf I will wait for spring....

So that love is in air again I have patience...

If love has cold shoulder like a freezing snow I will keep it warm...

With all my love as I have faith in love n believe in hope....

Nature cannot be so hard it will turn around....

Like after every night there is day break....

I will wait for the dawn to happen....

It is sure gonna come its right at the corner......


Shruti Mehendale 12th September 2009

Patience......

Patience......

I used to wonder if ever I could be patient enough...

They say MOTHERHOOD teaches you to be patient...

And when my first baby daughter was born....

It seams I also took the few steps towards...

Learning to be patient....

I would rather say waiting for 9 months...

For her to be born in itself was...

A patient full job on my part...

That was my first lesson on patient

I would say LOVE also teaches you to be patient

And when I think of it is very true...

Cos where your love is concerned....

You have all the patience in the world...

One thing is sure you do not wanna lose...

The person you love...

Rather you would be more patient full...

And I believe this the second and the last lesson...

Between these two you learn....

All the lessons of patience for the lifetime

By Shruti Mehendale 10th August 2009 

Jaan !!! I wish I could

I wish I could make you..........

Understand our relationship and go on.

I wish I could make you.........

Believe the love between us and go on.

I wish I could make you.........

See in the bond between us and go on.

I wish I could make you........

Trust me enough to go on.

I wish I could make you........

Forget your sorrows and go on.

I wish I could make you........

Feel the feeling of sharing and go on.

I wish I could make you........

Break the walls around your heart and go on

Jaan !!! I wish I could 

By Shruti Mehendale

8th Sep 2009

Conversation with silence of soul mate......

Having conversation with silence of soul mate......

Just when we talking ...

all of a sudden ......

silence.....

Silence is a killer ......

this is what I say...

to my soul mate.....

but this killer silence ...

has its own charm....

when you connected with .....

your soul mate...

you can even hear .....

the silence speaking.....

all of a sudden.....

you having conversation....

with silence....

I can listen to the....

silence of my soul mate....

as long as we are connected...

Silence is a killer this is what i say to my soul mate.....