Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Bonding of our souls...



I don't know how many Life's...
I have passed by...
My love for you is still alive...
My love for you is free...
Of any bondage ...

It need no name or tag to survive ..
It only craves for...
An eternal bonding of our souls...

Shruti Mehendale 11th August 2011

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Sharing an article from Osho Times Online...

Sharing an article from Osho Times Online...
MAN’S INHUMANITY
 
Why do people treat each other like they do? Is it all conditioning, or is there something in man that makes him willing to go astray?
It is both.

First, there is something in man that leads him astray. And secondly, there are people whose interest it is to lead human beings astray. Both together create a false, fake human being. His heart longs for love, but his conditioned mind prevents him from love.

This is the problem. The child is born with a heart that longs for love, but he is also born with a brain that can be conditioned.
Society has to condition it against the heart, because the heart will be always rebellious against the society, it will always follow its own way.

It cannot be made into a soldier. It can become a poet, it can become a singer, it can become a dancer, but it cannot become a soldier.

It can suffer for its individuality, it can die for its individuality and freedom, but it cannot be enslaved. That is the state of the heart. But the mind.... The child comes with an empty brain, just a mechanism, which you can arrange the way you want. It will learn the language you teach, it will learn the religion you teach, it will learn the morality you teach. It is simply a computer; you just feed it with information. And every society takes care to make the mind stronger and stronger so that if there is any conflict between heart and mind, the mind is going to win. But every victory of the mind over the heart is a misery. It is a victory over your nature, over your being — over you — by others. And they have cultivated your mind to serve their purposes.

So the mind is empty, it is brain; you can put anything in it. And with twenty-five years of education you can make it so strong that you forget your heart; you will always remain miserable. The misery is that your heart can only give you joy, can only give you happiness, can only make you dance.

The mind can do arithmetic, but it cannot sing a song. Those are just not the capacities of the mind. So you are torn apart between your nature, which is your heart, and the society that is in your head. And certainly you are born — everybody is born — with these two centers. That is the difficulty.

And one center is empty. In a better society it will be used in accordance with the heart, to serve the heart. Then it will be a great life, full of rejoicings. But up to now we have lived in an ugly society, with rotten ideas. They have used the mind. And that vulnerability is there — mind can be used.

Now communists are using it in one way; fascists used it in Germany in one way; all the other religions are using it in different ways. But that vulnerability is with every individual: that you have a mind which you bring empty. In fact it is a blessing of existence — but misused, exploited. It is given to you empty so that you can make it perfectly subservient to your heart, to your longings, to your potential. Nothing is wrong in it. But the vested interests all over the world have found it a beautiful opportunity for them — to use the mind against the heart. So you remain miserable and they can exploit you in whatever ways they want.

That’s why the whole world is miserable.

Everybody wants to be loved, everybody wants to love; but the mind is such a barrier that it neither allows you to love, nor does it allow you to be loved. In both cases the mind comes in the way and starts distorting everything.

And even if by chance you meet a person you feel love for and the person feels love for you, your minds are not going to settle. They have been trained by different systems, different religions, different societies.

It is everybody’s birthright to be happy, but unfortunately the society, the people with whom we have been living, who have brought us into the world, have not thought anything about it. They have just been reproducing human beings like animals — even worse because at least animals are not conditioned. This conditioning process should be completely changed. The mind should be trained to be a servant of the heart.

Logic should serve love. And then life can become a festival of lights.

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Creating Loving Relationships


I would like to share some portion of book "Messages from Masters" by Dr. Brian Weiss.......

Quote......

There are different levels of learning, and we must learn some of them in flesh. We must feel the pain. When you're a spirit you feel no pain. It is a period of renewal. Your soul is being renewed. When you're in physical state in the flesh, you can feel pain; you can hurt. In spiritual form you do not feel. There is only happiness, a sense of well-being. But it's a renewal period for ....us. The interaction between people in the spiritual form is different. When you are in physical state.....you can experience relationships.

After our birth in the physical state, our main source of learning is through relationships. Through the joy and pain of interaction with other people, we progress on our spiritual paths in order to learn about love from all sides. Relationships are living laboratory, a field test to determine how we are doing, whether our lessons have been learned, to discover how close we are to our pre-determined life plan. In relationships our emotions are evoked, and we react. Have we learned to turn the other cheek, or do we retaliate with violence? Do we reach out to others with understanding, love, and compassion,or do we react with fear, selfishness, or rejection? Without relationships we would not know; we would not test our progress. They are wonderful but difficult opportunities to learn.

We are here in physical state in order to learn and grow. We learn traits and qualities such as love, non-violence, compassion, charity, faith, hope, forgiveness, understanding, and awareness. We must unlearn negative traits and qualities, including fear, anger, hatred, violence, greed, pride, lust, selfishness, and prejudice.

Unquote......

I would say look deeply at all your relationships be it with anyone and keep learning your lessons n show understanding, love, and compassion towards people in your life.......

LOVE U ALL who have touched my life some way or the other as you all were a medium of my learning lessons. Still trying my best to control negative trait specially anger......

Shruti Mehendale
14th Dec 2009

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Patience......



Patience......
I used to wonder if ever I could be patient enough...

They say MOTHERHOOD teaches you to be patient...
And when my first baby daughter was born....
It seams I also took the few steps towards...
Learning to be patient....

I would rather say waiting for 9 months...
For her to be born in itself was...
A patient full job on my part...
That was my first lesson on patient
I would say LOVE also teaches you to be patient
And when I think of it is very true...
Cos where your love is concerned....
You have all the patience in the world...

One thing is sure you do not wanna lose...
The person you love...
Rather you would be more patient full...
And I believe this the second and the last lesson...

Between these two you learn....
All the lessons of patience for the lifetime

By Shruti Mehendale 10th August 2009 

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Jaan !!! I wish I could






I wish I could make you..........
Understand our relationship and go on.


I wish I could make you.........
Believe the love between us and go on.


I wish I could make you.........
See in the bond between us and go on.


I wish I could make you........
Trust me enough to go on.


I wish I could make you........
Forget your sorrows and go on.


I wish I could make you........
Feel the feeling of sharing and go on.


I wish I could make you........
Break the walls around your heart and go on


Jaan !!! I wish I could 


By Shruti Mehendale
8th Sep 2009